Is the real motivation for repealing don't ask don't tell, an attempt to harm the military?

liberals despise the military...they HATE it...these are the same people who want rights for terrorists,and with every breath denigrate out military...this issue is the same as gay marriage...liberals despise families,and are trying to destroy them...the best way to do this is to make it meaningless with gay marriage...same with gays in the military...